Emotional Vampires and their boundary crossing tendencies are objectively the worst. Not long after that, she got fired, and that was the last I saw of her. Also, I found myself low-key triggered reading all this, as it reminds me of a certain Vader Ex. Thanks for this description. So while I thought we had a relationship of equals I came to find out when their reform efforts blew up that they were trying to fix me and had a definite vision in mind of how I could reach my potential. I am constantly working on my reactions by teach my kids that they are capable and by observing others I care about doing things differently than I would while also recognizing that they can make their our choices without me meddling. The loss of the dog did not ultimately change me. All I can say is that I know this is where my brain wants to go and I have to actively try to keep my relationships with people balanced and equal, let them be adults and handle their own problems, offer sympathy not advice or even service, unless asked.
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