Obviously I only have experience with my own child, and I think these feelings are completely normal and common, but you might also be comforted by the fact that this stage is temporary and you will not always have to feel as if you are in competition for your child's affections. Like your child, mine prefers to be held by her grandmother even when I'm right there. I found, though, that after she hit about months, she definitely preferred my husband and I, and my jealousy basically vanished. I'm sure you'll get a slew of answers on this one, but I just wanted to throw in my 2 cents, as a pretty anxious first-time mother who worried excessively over her baby's attachment to his nanny. At the most crucial moments, it is me he expresses a preference for, even as he is now capable of pushing at me and telling me to go away when his nanny shows up. I've experienced things like this at other times as well.
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